100 Days of Happy

A few of my friends’ photos drew me in over the last couple of days. They were celebrating happiness. It has been lovely to see. I think life gets busy and we can often forget to take some time to let ourselves be happy.

Following what I had seen in these photos and their hashtags I did some research via Google… I came across 100 Happy Days,  a site that created a challenge for the individual, not to compete, but a something to engage in that celebrates daily happiness and can be used as a daily reminder to really appreciate those happy moments!

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It is pretty simple to take part, if you click the link you’ll be able to read more information {including the reason why 71% of people failed to complete this task} AND sign up.
But basically you upload a shot, to the medium of your choice, of something that made you happy that day. When uploading use the tag : #100happydays which will group your shots with everyone participating {you can also use your own tag, which was suggested for privacy}. I’m using #100happy days plus my own #happykooklah to group mine together on my preferred medium.

I love the idea, I don’t think of it as meaning you need to be happy 24/7 but instead that I am making a commitment to an increasingly happy life! I signed up last night and nominated today as my first day. I am about to upload my first shot to instagram, where I will be sharing {search for @saregiak + follow me or use the tags mentioned}.. they will also be shared on twitter and every ten days in wrap up posts on Kooklah.

My reason for joining is to use it as another tool to improve my mood, mindset and mental health. To be honest, I want to blast a whole lot of sunshine into depression’s black cloud of sadness, self doubt and isolation.

I hope you’ll join me! I think this will help many people to improve their lives. As my friend Peta said to me today “Good things happen to you if you are happy”.
If you are joining in, let me know so I can look out for your shots.

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Here’s to happy,

Kooklah Xo – p.s like Kooklah on Facebook {you can soon look forward to more updates, photos and interaction X}

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Thought of the Day

I found this to be an inspiring and thought provoking saying. It is simple and yet has a strong message…

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#quoteoftheday

What a great reminder to keep moving forward. You can’t change the past, we should all be able to look back for the benefit of learning from our experiences… but ultimately we need to keep looking ahead.

Lately I have felt low, stuck and stagnant. Reading this allowed me to take a breath and remember that progress doesn’t have to come in huge ways, progress can be recognised in the smallest of victories.
For me, last week I reached out and was open when I felt that I couldn’t deal anymore. I needed support and to take some time to recharge. I also went to the gym again. Once + yoga, but this week I am aiming for atleast two gym sessions. Small steps towards change.

So turn forward, just keep moving. Eventually you’ll be able to turn around and say “look how far I’ve come…”

Kooklah Xo

Ask the Question… Guest post for Creating Contentment

For today’s guest post on Creating Contentment, I have written about something close to my heart. Something I try to do, and something I appreciate when people do it to me. It is reaching out and offering help, a shoulder or listening ear to those who need it. Below I have included an excerpt of the post. ‘Ask the Question’ in full post form {+ a post dedication – the first post I have officially dedicated to someone} can be read here.. we would love to read your comments and/or stories so feel free to share with us.

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I can see your mind ticking over, what question? There are many questions that come our way everyday. The question I am referring to, is not specific, it can be asked in many different ways. It is about reaching out to someone and making sure they have their head above water. It could be a friend, a family member, a work colleague or someone you pass by throughout the day – it could even be something to ask yourself.

If someone is really low, they can be very good with hiding it. Big smiles that don’t quite reach the eyes, answering with ‘fine’, or big pauses before saying good and quickly changing subjects or even avoiding people they know really well.

How do I know this? I know this, because  …… (go on, click over to the full post for the rest!)

Styling Positive,

Kooklah Xo